A New Beginning

Starting everything all over again is different for everyone. Everyone has their own reason of moving on and a different perspective of seeing it too. For me its letting go of all the pain by forgiving, not trusting again but just forgiving. 

I believe that without forgiveness we cannot have a brand new start as the pain will just be something we will try to escape from. Forgiving means getting the strength to face the bitter truth and accept it before moving on. By doing so we are sure not to fall down again for the same reason but on the contrary to get up stronger. Moreover, we would have learned from the pain and tears and know what mistake not to repeat in the future. It's an experience that will help to grow into someone better. Also, it is a way of making peace  with your past to live better today.

A new beginning is a choice that is difficult to make as it requires us to really want to accept a change and the consequences. It is easier to keep playing the hurt victim and repeating the same mistakes all over again but this also make us weaker each time.  People say time is the best healer but i believe time does not heal any pain it just make us get used to it. To heal our pain, we should choose willingly to accept it and assume all the consequences. 

No matter how many people will be there to help, we are the only one who will know our real pain and suffering. Therefore, we should gather our strength to fight our own battle alone. It may be more challenging but then the result will only be what we truly wanted and thus, we will be more satisfied. Afterall, it is only our life, not someone else playground to control it for us.